Sorry to hear about your predicament man. Please do some research on plants called Adaptogens. i believe there are about 12 to 16 of them, including: Maca, cacao, pine pollen, Moringa, schishandra, gotu kola, Eleuthero, maral root, shilajit, bacopa monneiri, ashwaganda, astragalus, ginseng, licorice root, holy basil, some mushrooms and rhodiola. Please note that cocoa is the processed form of cacao, chocolate is another form too. Stick to the non-processed forms if you can. These plants help the body return to normal function while cleaning up cortisol. They have many benefits in the body, but help men with too especially with various male issues. How to use them? I get powders of as many of the adaptogens as I can. I then add tablespoon of each powder i have to a container and mix thoroughly. Then I get 500 g of walnuts, pound them into powder and add to the container with with adaptogens.
I then add 150 ml of aloe vera juice, 200 ml of honey and half a cup of lemon juice or more (fresh if possible), mix everything together then put in a fridge in a suitable container. Sometimes I add 350 ml of cognac too if I want something alcoholic without taking moderate amount of alcohol. I then take 1 tablespoon of the mixture 30 minutes before each meal daily. I notice that my family members like my mixture too these days, used to last me a month now it takes a few weeks. Good health to everyone though, so I am not complaining. Look for these plants too since they help men too: Horny Goat, mucana pruriens, Polyrhachis ant extract, Brazil Nuts, Pomegranate, Cistanche, Nettle Root, Passionflower, Cruciferous Vegetables, Tongkat Ali The following plant oils also help a lot: -Olive, blackseed oil, argan oil,coconut oil Lastly, just take a teaspoon of charcoal in a glass of water before going to bed each night to clean out toxins in your body daily.